Don't compare your Life to others'

Recently i've updated my FB chat-theme to Rilakkuma style. It's kinda cute. For those who wish to have a try, u can follow the link below:
https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/boihdhneeghabgieifcfinfempokflon/details

After sharing my print screen wif my peeps,
Surprisingly, i was inspired to blog about "Every 1 can b the Boss"
U can b called as Boss bcox u rule your own life, but scores + achievements decide ur Renown =)
mY Rillakkuma

To b honest, i think most of us hav our own dreams....

Dreams that look silly in the eyes of others; 
Dreams that we think we can't achieve in De Future;
Dreams that make us struggle wif The Reality; 






Those dreams seem so much more expensive just bcox they r Unachievable / Unreachable / Impossible?!
NO WAY~!!
U are recognized for Ur action, not ur thought. If v just sit there and dreaming, Ur dream will become cheap and useless.
No1 is gonna reimbursed for just thinking, u are paid to DO.



mY advice to Dear reader:


Don't compare your Life to others'
you have NO idea what their journey is all about !!
No one truly remembers their own history, nor do they reveal it to anyone in it’s entirety. Live your life as best as you can! encouraging as many as you can! Stay positive and Cheers~!! 

Additional readings for u guys =)

How to Turn Dreams into Reality - by JONATHAN

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Compromising

   妥协 - 

是指在冲突双方互相让步的过程中以达成一种协议的局面。
 管理者可能没有触及到问题的真正核心，而是就事论事的加以妥协，因此缺乏对冲突原因的真正了解。在这种情况下妥协并不能真正的解决的问题。也可能放弃了其他更好的解决方式。


If a compromise makes you feel taken advantage of, or lessens you somehow as a person, then it is an unhealthy compromise. The art of compromise must come with mutual respect, good intentions and honesty. A compromise should not diminish either person as an individual.
While there are plenty of things that should be open to negotiation in the partnership, here are a few key elements that make you who you are, that you should never compromise:


The basic moral system which most of us have firmly in place in our psyches should always be respected. Loving someone does not mean absorbing their moral values. If you compromise on these, your conscience will suffer, eventually causing you to resent your partner. Better to find a mate with similar moral values that the two of you can use as a guide throughout your lives.


self esteem - Any relationship that makes a woman feel bad about herself is an unhealthy one. If making you feel diminished somehow makes him feel more secure, or if pointing out your faults has become his favorite habit, you need to re-evaluate this person’s place in your life. Perhaps the two of you are a poor match. Perhaps, he is looking for an emotional punching bag. Whatever the case, your loved one should appreciate you, admire things about you, and be supportive. If not, cut him loose before more damage is done.

Little compromises are natural and unavoidable, but be careful not to give up too much of what is important to you for the sake of a relationship that should help to affirm who you already are.

Recources:
http://blog.californiapsychics.com/blog/2011/02/7-things-women-should-not-compromise-in-a-relationship.html
http://www.hudong.com/wiki/%E5%A6%A5%E5%8D%8F

所有改变 只为了进入你的世界 

这情节    重复了一百遍 

你划定楚河汉界 我不能轻易犯规 

所有时间   都是先给了你优先权 

不自觉 爱到不敢冒险

成了你的傀儡一年两年

才看见我有多狼狈 

爱到妥协 到头来还是无解

绑着你   不让你飞

历史不断重演 我好累

我不想在为你掉泪

我了解   不会变

不再徘徊 

08 August 12