Don't compare your Life to others'

Recently i've updated my FB chat-theme to Rilakkuma style. It's kinda cute. For those who wish to have a try, u can follow the link below:
https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/boihdhneeghabgieifcfinfempokflon/details

After sharing my print screen wif my peeps,
Surprisingly, i was inspired to blog about "Every 1 can b the Boss"
U can b called as Boss bcox u rule your own life, but scores + achievements decide ur Renown =)
mY Rillakkuma

To b honest, i think most of us hav our own dreams....

Dreams that look silly in the eyes of others; 
Dreams that we think we can't achieve in De Future;
Dreams that make us struggle wif The Reality; 






Those dreams seem so much more expensive just bcox they r Unachievable / Unreachable / Impossible?!
NO WAY~!!
U are recognized for Ur action, not ur thought. If v just sit there and dreaming, Ur dream will become cheap and useless.
No1 is gonna reimbursed for just thinking, u are paid to DO.



mY advice to Dear reader:


Don't compare your Life to others'
you have NO idea what their journey is all about !!
No one truly remembers their own history, nor do they reveal it to anyone in it’s entirety. Live your life as best as you can! encouraging as many as you can! Stay positive and Cheers~!! 

Additional readings for u guys =)

How to Turn Dreams into Reality - by JONATHAN

what-successful-people-do-first-hour-their-work-day

th3 Princess?!

i'm HOME...
i'm back to a place that provide me a warm bed + nice foods...
it even provides me laughters, happiness & comfyy~.
it's like a castle for me,
it's the only place that i could act like a "Princess".... or a "sleeping Beauty" perhaps?! =D

i believe some of u may feel the same way like me,
when u wake up in the morning, the breakfast r there for u~
when u feel boring, some1 will always b there to chat wif u~
when u feel happy, they will clap their hand & cheer wif u~
when u r sad or emo, they will hook u up wif classical crap jokes~ （绝世经典冷笑话）
when u feel lazy, some1 will give u a hand & ur name will b eliminated frm "housework schedule" =P




Being a "Princess" doesn't mean that i'll have 2k per month as my pocket money~
for me, it just as simple as daddy mummy able to pamper me when i need them,
when i feel lik wana eat "char kuew tiao" they just buy it for me,
when i feel lik lazy to hav my breakfast, they'll scold me & force me at least drink a glass of milk~
etc...
that's "princess" enough for me. =))
Even Disney princesses have different kind of lives + characters, it depends on how u view it
or shall i say:"which 1 do u wish to b~" 
Jasmine, Belle, Ariel, Cinderella, Aurora and Snow White? =P

mY perception changed through out these few years,
10 years ago, i would used "incomplete" / "unhappy" / "noisy" / "complicated"
those kind of words to describe my family.
i believe that people around me notice about tat... my changes.


"Do my Best & bring them to a better life" -- is my current mindset. =) i'll appreciate what i hav rather thn complaining "why i cant hav a simpler live just like the others?!"




We're gonna Build-up "things" on our own,
things that v acquire for but doesn't "currently" exist in our life.
Guys, life is full of challenges, that's y it's fun & colourful~
=D
Don't u agree wif me?! *wink



♥  phebe

i'm only me when i'm with u~

.

28th March 2011

here's where the story begin....

bought her some "sweet pie" & share her a video =D

video part 1 =D

29th mArch hanging out wif my hOney~

mY Art-work XD

B'day card from miSs Ally~

it brings me lots of memories when i flash back those photos & videos... =)

• Lif3 wiThOut friendship is like the sKy WitHoUt th3 sUN
• ^^v
• phOto shOoting =)
• 2010 march

最重要的决定～

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超感动的！！
从黑白配开始我就觉得他们真的天生一对了～！
超配的！好羡慕哦！

刚看完康熙（16、17号），整个哭到不行！！！太感人了啦！！！
 ='）

♫ ♪ ♩   ♫ ♩  ♪   ♩ ♪ ♫

我常在想 应该再也找不到 任何人 像你对我那么好

好到我的家人也被照料 我的朋友 还为你撑腰

你还是有 一堆毛病 改不掉 傲起来 气的仙女都跳脚

可是人生 完美的事太少 我们不能什么都想要

你是我最重要的决定 我愿意 每天在你身边苏醒

就连吵架也很过瘾 不会冷冰 因为真爱没有输赢 只有亲密

你是我最重要的决定 我愿意 每天在你身边苏醒

就连吵架也很过瘾 不会冷冰 因为真爱没有输赢 只有亲密

你是我最重要的决定 我愿意 打破对未知的恐惧

就算流泪也能放弃 将心比心 因为幸福 没有捷径 只有经营

♫ ♪ ♩   ♫ ♩  ♪   ♩ ♪ ♫

我很疑惑，

我的脑海里所浮现的，

太复杂了，

我的脑袋负荷不了，

还是把它搁在一旁好了！

失去了才懂得珍惜

24th Feb 2011

........

not much to talk...

just feel doubt about myself,

am i doing things Correctly? am i still on the Right path?

which i hope it could lead me to the next level?

people dono what exactly in my mind,

& i DON'T CARE !!!

i do wat i feel it's right & put my 100% for it.

Yes, there is uncertainty & kinda risky,

 but u will never know wats the outcome, if u never tried.

i will still follow my own "mind map",

try my best to hit wat i aim for.

when the time i reach the next pit stop....

i really wish that some1 has already been there.

你真的了解故事背后的真相吗？ *冷笑

你确定？？

那好～就如你所愿……

不想理会一些“不必要”的嘲讽，

更不想因为那些“无关要紧”的人、事、物来伤心。

我不需向任何人交代什么，

但也得谢谢那些真正关心我的人。

Future might not be smooth as i thought of,

but whatever it is, the only thing i can say is :

i decide it, i deserve it !!

u may cry

but u stil hav to keep it on after u wipe off ur tears...

一颗心的距离 ♥

为什么人会流泪？
真的只是伤心吗？当然不！
开心也可以是导致一颗颗泪珠滑落的原因哦！

为伤心、失望流泪并不特别，因为“人生不如意事，十之八九”
倘若有些事物，足以让你喜极而泣，那你就得好好享受这份快感~!!!
不是人人都能拥有的福气哦！ =)

我就有啦！！还不止一次呢～！
不过我打算分享的这次呢，是与她有关的……

    

是你让我知道“施比受更快乐”！

a cAke wif Swe3t outlook
but taste just nic3~  like u~!!

友达以上，恋人未满

『好像很近 瞬间又远离，很难实现才叫梦想，才要决心 

我们终于一起 来到这里，当我激动不能言语……把我抱紧

我们隔着 一颗心的距离，有笑有哭地去回忆

夏天秋天 纯真蜕变的电影，会是一辈子做不腻的事情

静静隔着 一颗心的距离，交换最真实的情绪
庆幸 太不勇敢的纪念日里…… 你曾经 给我多重要的鼓励』


♥ puRe FriendShip n3ver cAres For mOn3y~ ♥
喜欢你给我的这句话：
我们有泪水、有欢笑，我们会为小事争吵，我们会因为蠢事而冷战。但有一件事情我们绝对不会做、永远都不会做：*我们从不会虚伪地对待对方~* 

2008五月的记忆

20-2-2011    3am


突然翻回一些旧文件…… 发现了这本“纪念册”……
这是他们带给我的记忆…… =）
谁也不能将它给删除……



我一页一页地翻阅，心情渐渐地愉悦了起来～
好怀念哦～！ 其中，这一页埋藏了一些足以让我了解到……
原来我真的蛮凶的！ XD

不是啦！
我想说的是，两年前和两年后的“读后感” 是有出入的……
也许是我的思维更上一层了吧？！

=) 无论如何，我会珍惜这本只属于『我们的纪念册』

thanks for th3 "christmas wish"......

as usual, i viewed ur profile again..... trying to "track" some of ur updates....
but u 're use to b low profile type....  :-)
yet i stil saw the X-mas wish.... thought it might nt for me.... but i'll take it as yes~!
u stil gt my attention..... dono y.....

♥ Girls should know...

男人没有你想象的那样好，可以真爱，但不要深爱，在爱情里为自己留个退路，否则受伤时会措手不及。

这个世界上，最值得你爱的，除了父母，只有你自己。

爱情不是追来的，所以，永远不要认为被男孩追是理所当然的。但是，你对他的考验是必须的。

当一个清高的女孩遇到一个高傲的男孩时，总有一个人会卑微下来，但是如果可以, 不要把自己放得太低。

一个女人的品位在于她身边站着一个怎样品位的男人。女人一生最成功的事情之一，便是选了一个对的男人。

在爱情里，永远不要抱怨什么。

爱情，是需要用心经营的。

恋爱也是一门艺术.

By 

乐嘉老师

7天6夜～ i've learn to share.....

.
pheew~
finally the climax has comes to the peak & everything is slowing down....

i do enjoy my 6 nights in the "freezer" wif my lovely papa~
n wat i had discovered from tis "trip" is that.....
reading a story book for a kid is more easier than reading a "story book" for elderly people.
Lolx~

1st, u hav to make sure that the reading material is suitable for ur "target",
next, u'll need to change those words a bit....make the "story" sounds more friendly n easy to understand,
plus, u hav to control ur volume & tone~ so that they won feel bOred when u r reading~
tis may also help to encourage 2ways communication ~
the more interactive during the story telling, the better it is~

here is the differences whn our target is elder ppl. =)
cox whn v r reading for the kids, our major purpose is to make them fall asleep....
while to the elder, v r actually trying to communicate wif them n noe wat's in their mind....
seriously~ its useful.... =)
of course u dun treat them lik a baby ~ dont do it in a too formal way, lik "i'm gonna read this thing to my old man", but make it looks lik a conversation and the "story" is only a tool for u to connect wif them~ =)
after u started off wif the topic, u may try to switch the "story line" into ur real life experience or own opinion and then "the target" may willing to share their experience too....
that is y, the opening topic is important.... so~ be aware whn u choosing the reading materials.
hehe~ do some "research" on ur target b4 u take action....

For those who wish to reconnect wif some1 tat is important in ur life....
phebe thinks that "story telling" would b an alternative for u guys~
=)

finally, i realize.....

我终于知道了～！
我知道是什么
让我担忧、焦虑、失眠、闷闷不乐、茶饭不思、半夜独自在泪海中清醒过来的原因了！！

可能是之前的打击吧？！ 三年前的“惊吓” 导致我害怕再次失去熟悉的至爱……
或许你会说：“没那么严重吧？”
三年前，我失去了一个喜欢没事就拨电给我聊天，
喜欢吩咐我跑跑腿，
喜欢关心我在外地的生活作息，
喜欢偶尔买些我最爱的零食来哄哄我，
喜欢经常大声嚷嚷地指责孩子们的不是…… 的母亲……
幸运的是……她依然还在我身边～
唯一不同的是，她，已经不是那个她了……
你们可想过，一个十八、九岁的黄毛丫头，
一夜之间从人间掉落到谷底的情景是多么的残忍啊？！
我只能说……一切只因为突如其来的病状……
而产生了360度的变化……当然也包括了我的人生。

所以近一个星期我都没睡好的原因是因为担心25号的到来……
刚刚给他打了通电话，提醒他禁食，收拾必须品等。

对，这次只不过是个中型的手术……不会牵扯到任何生命危险……
但是，我再也不想体验失去熟悉的至亲……我也承受不起了……
他是我的一切！！！我的精神支柱！！！
倘若不是他，我不会有今天，我不会熬到现在，
他为孩子们撑起了半边天……
他的伟大是我三天三夜也无法叙述得完……

唉！正如我之前的文章所说～ 非言语能表达的，
又或者是我的文字运用得有限吧？！
我不确定大家是否能从文字中，了解我现在的心情，
但至少我现在舒服多了……

再会～！！！ =）


masa dulu~ hah !!
it reminds me on those days....

http://phebe-chai.blog.friendster.com/

一个陌生人

做了一个梦……
没想到竟然再次梦见你……

梦境大纲：
当时我处在一个非常紧急的状况，超害怕，超无助……
突然，你出现了！你向我伸出援手，帮了我……
最后，你牵着我，带我回到一个让我很安心、温暖的家……

这就是一直以来，你在我心目中的形象……
我们从未正面交锋，但你却足以让我牵挂……
无可否认地……在我心中……你曾拥有过一席之地，
但你从来也只爱“纸上谈兵”……
我倦了……
所以我把你放在脑海里最深的堡垒……

可能最近发生了一些让我觉得无助的事吧～
我的潜意识把你从堡垒放了出来……
让你演出一场英雄救美的戏码，
其实当我一醒来的那一刻，我是开心的，
然后是落寞……

我知道梦归梦，
一切回归正常，
你还是你，我还是我，
各自过着自己的生活……

在这里我想借此机会祝福你……
愿你天天开心，
享受你所向往的生活，
祝福你与你的家人健健康康……

relaxing... =)

it has been few weeks.....

finally i gt to 3njoy my time wif pinky rAbbit + air-con + lov3ly pillow.

the 1st thing i did whn i gt home of course was

giv my little princess a warm hug hug + big kiss kiss~!!!

teehee

did u see that?

she grimaced while i'm taking tis photo

=P

ok~ guess i'll need to give her some tutorials about manner,

so that she won pee on me again when i shower her...

=(

hahahahaha!!!!!!

missing u~ u~ u~ & u~!!! =)

20th July 2010

hmmmm...... i'm sick~!!! home sick~!!! =(

hopefully i can going bc tis weekend....

u noe wat? i get some new stuff for Ivy~ =D

i went to tesco after my test, feel sad after sit for the test... ='(

thn i saw those QQ baby girl romper~

it grabbed my attention....so i just randomly stop by n took a glance,

i din expect tat i'll buy anything about tat,

n yet~ i gt 2 for the Th3 Eight... =D

i dono whether it's fit or nt.... =p

1 is for new born babies, another 1 is for 12months-baby....

cox i noe tat babies r growing super fast~ tats y i prepare the Q outfit for her ad...

=)

of course i do miss my papa mama also.... =)

but the baby is too cute until i cant get her out of my mind.... ^0^

the feelings of missing sum1 is nt tat gd....

i rather there is always some1 who missing me....

yup~ i'm afraid of tat.... 

afraid of everything which related wif r..at.o.ship....

i'm just a coward....=( 

♫♪ wAka-WaKA ♫♪ mY 1st F3VeR

WoO~ seriously i never thought that i could b such in lOv3 wif FIFA World Cup 2010.... =D

it was my 1st time to get into the excitement of Football matches.... 

hmm... i noe nothing about soccer actually....bt at least now i learn a little bit about it.... =D 

from zero to.... erm 50% gua~ must b humble a bit rite? XP hahaa.... still lots of stuff tat i tak tau~  

 

y3ah~ my 1st jersey.....

watched the Argentina vs Germany match wif uni kaki~ =D

Luckily i've gt numbers of sources which could provide me the reliable info about FIFA2010 XD

y'day as usual i went to mamak again wif mY private kaki Miss Ally to support our favorite team, Spain!! 

the crowd was HUGE~ !!!

it's mission impossible to get a seat for those who come late. Some even bring their own chairs to mamak n order drinks~  . >.<''.

v r the lucky early birds~ whn the time v reached was 90% full jor....yet v stil gt the "luxury view" table~ right in front the screen~ y3ah~~!!! =)

okayy.... it was super memorable~ every1 is shouting, cheering, clapping around.... i lik the "gan jeong" atmosphere~ hahahaha....

but the worse part was the rain started to drop when extra time is given... =( i'm getting cooler n cooler, my eyes r smaller n smaller jor... haha... 

luckily Iniesta scores in extra time to give spain its 1st World Cup~ \^0^! Bravo~

Andres Iniesta,
lovely kick~ hahahha...

GoaL~~ =D

hmm... the Netherlands coach was pointing at the referee, Howard Webb.

y huh?? XD

PoOr Alonso was kicked by Nigel De Jong ... ish~!!!

i hate de jong!!!

Xabi Alonso grimace in pain.... Oww.... =(

hehe... those r some pic of my favorite players =p

yup~ its mY David Villa + Iker Casillas  n_n

y3ah~ cheers for Spain warriors~!!! =D

it's 5am, while
3very1 stand up n applaud.

my fren n i were already on the way to gt the car while clapping for the heroes... 

i can sure that i'll miss my uni-life during the next FIFA World Cup 2014....

Ally, see whether or nt v gt a chance for another f3ver 2gether again... =P